Hello BME readers!
At A Glance Author Ms_Apple_ Contact [email protected] Artist Ms_Apple_ Studio private residence Location australia My name is Ms_Apple, and I enjoy an exciting and slightly unusual practise during foreplay with my partner, which I thought you might be interested to learn about.
Before I continue, let me stress DO NOT TRY ANY EXTREME PIERCINGS WITHOUT TRAINING. Despite your best efforts and intentions, it is imperative that some kind of formal research and training be conducted. I do not mean to scare you (much the opposite in fact!!), but there is really nothing erotic about infections or unintentional and ugly scarification. Please, if you are interested, contact the experts first!!
Piercing and branding during sexual activity arose naturally during a Domme/Sub relationship. Ever since my first stereotypical and socially acceptable piercings (nose, tongue, bellybutton) I knew that I wanted it to become a part of my life, and that I found it arousing. Therefore, it seemed a natural progression in the punishment process. I had to wait for 18 months before my partner became comfortable (and indeed eager!) with the idea.
We first trained under a qualified practitioner in the UK, (name available upon enquiry), before attempting even the basics. From there we experimented, carefully introducing it into our sex play.
The piercings we incorporate into foreplay are not permanent. They are temporary; adding to and highlighting the pleasure we both receive from the pain.
The majority of piercings we enjoy are genital and extreme areas such as the upper thighs, buttocks and lower stomach, as well as lower back. However, be aware that extreme area piercings that are fresh and active (i.e. buttocks clenched, back bent) do tend to bleed. As our piercings are shallow to ensure quick healing and lessen scars, the blood is an insignificant amount. Be advised though, that caution is important when it comes to any breaking of skin, and normal rules of hygiene apply.
The most piercings during a single session actually included a third person, also a Sub. Between the two of them, genital piercings numbered 212 (incorporating the scrotum); there were 2 rows of 40 bars in each thigh, and 15 in each buttock. The incredible tally was therefore 592 in all! There was IV available if needed, and a friend who is a qualified RN was on hand in case of any trouble. The bars were surgical steel, and captive ball rings were the same. It occurred over a 4-hour period, with frequent rests.
The experience differs for my partner and myself. He finds it erotic to watch himself being punished with piercing, the pain heightening his enjoyment and, he claims, prolonging orgasm.
As for myself, the pain I inflict on him, the sight of his blood, and the subsequent 'discipline', excites me. The piercings can also aid in his restraint, though because of their freshness and shallowness, the restraints are light. His permanent piercings (both nipples and Prince Albert) provide a much stronger, safer and tighter restraint.
If he has been good, my partner is permitted to pierce me, which I also enjoy as a role-reversal. This is only on special occasions though, and I engage in the majority of piercings and branding.
The branding and subsequent scarification IS permanent, as I am sure you all know. This practise requires sensitivity towards ones partner and their body, as well as self-control. As I find this particular practice intense and incredibly satisfying, I constantly need to remind myself that self-control is of utmost importance. Just don't go poking willy-nilly! Be aware that you need to allow for healing, and leave room for the next session!
In our branding, we have been very lucky to meet a like-minded metal worker, who has actually customised our irons (name and add. supplied upon request)! I have our initials, as well as my icon (the mother of all temptation - the apple) and a lightning strike for real punishment. The initials and icon are only small (approx 6cm square) while the lightning is larger (14cm by 4cm) and designed for when he deserves more!
I cannot stress enough the incredible importance of a trustworthy, trained partner in these activities. You are quite literally putting your well being in their hands, and without trust there is the fear of real danger. I had to wait for 18 months for my partner. Although I am his Domme, we share a wonderful life and his comfort and trust is very important to me. I did not, and could not have forced him into this.
All in all, I engage in what I view as a healthy and safe practise! I have never had any (or caused any!!) grievous injuries for which I thank my partner, as well as my awesome trainer in the finer art of piercing for pleasure!
I hope you have learnt something and enjoyed my practices! Feel free to contact me; I am more than willing to provide you with names, addresses and like-minded enthusiasts! I welcome your interest!
I must say thankyou to my wonderful partner, the love of my life. Also to Jerry, Spud and Katrina. And, to my special friends around the globe. You know who you are! Thankyou.